I have been friends with someone for a few years now and recently learned we have very different political beliefs. I’m struggling to figure out how to bridge this gap or if I should even address our differences at all.
Please help, Earl Grey!
Going strong out of the gate; this is such an amazing question. Right now, our world is politically divided and relationships all over are suffering. Political beliefs can be part of a person’s core values and when those beliefs are questioned or threatened they might feel hurt and betrayed by you. The reason there is so much political divide right now in our country is because everyone wants to believe that they or their side are right and it can be hard for some people to accept other points of view.
It is possible to still be friends with that person despite their political beliefs. You might think that it is better to just nod along and not cause any conflict but according to NPR, it’s actually the opposite. Experts say that in order to have unity within our country again it is important to address these differences. Even if you don’t agree with them it can be good for both of you to listen to the other point of view and acknowledge the differences you have.
It’s necessary to make sure they know that by addressing your differing beliefs, you aren’t trying to attack them. The key to having this conversation is being polite and listening to their side. If you are confrontational or judgmental it could result in an argument instead of a discussion.
It’s important to remember that if the person is a good friend, they won’t judge you based on your political beliefs but rather on the years of friendship and trust that you’ve developed.
Earl Grey